There was a poster I loved on the wall at my Kindergarten. It said ‘All educators are supermodels” and the vibe of the thing was to be a positive role-model for the kiddies who are always watching (like God and Santa). I had an a-ha moment and abruptly stopped smoking, shouting and swearing, at least during school hours. I channelled my inner Gigi Hadid (Blind Freddy once said I was a dead ringer for her) and set to work endeavouring to be a good role model; thinking thoughtfully, acting accordingly, watching my words and serving smizes and looks.

I read a book once (please hold your applause till the end) where the author pointed out the importance of having a role model to led the way and show others what’s possible. In “The Talent Code”, Daniel Coyle writes that before Se Ri Pak won the LPGA championship in 1998 there were no successful South Korean golfers. Ten years later, female South Korean golfers had, “essentially colonized the LGPA Tour, with forty-five players who collectively won about one-third of the events”.

In this excellent book, Coyle gives many examples of these ‘hotbeds’ where, “a breakthrough success is followed by a massive bloom of talent”. A similar message of, “If she can see it, she can be it!” comes from Geena Davis’ research organisation, See Jane, which aims to engage, educate, and influence the need for gender balance, reducing stereotyping and creating a wide variety of female characters for entertainment. It reinforces the importance of having visible role models to aspire to.

Tony Robbins says that success leaves clues and that, “the surest way to achieve success is to model someone who is already successful. If you don’t have good models, find someone who is the best in your chosen field and emulate them. You don’t need to reinvent the wheel – simply learn from the best”. So look around and find a supermodel in the street (depending on the street), in your feed or on the library shelf. I am grateful that I have had and continue to have many role models that inspire me and I can aspire to.

So thank you to; the goofy goddesses (Marie Forleo, Rachel Hunter, Adriene Mishler), the high priestesses, (Marianne Williamson, Esther Hicks, Gabrielle Bernstein), the witty wordsmiths (Zoë Foster Blake, Liane Moriaty, Mari Andrew), the bright lights (Ellen DeGeneres, Taylor Swift, Drew Barrymore) and the ones I have the honour to know (Alicia Malone, Elena Pilch, Nikki Britton).

The world is full of supermodels and some of them are us! You never know who you might be inspiring (maybe a 4 year old to say thank you), so keep on shining and smizing brightly as you channel your inner Gigi Hadid.

Love and light andnow you may applaud xxx Yvette

The Talent Code by Daniel Coyle:

See Jane:

Tony Robbins “Success Leaves Clues”

Gigi Hadid: I showed her the draped-casually-on-a-rock pose which she’s keen to try.


The goofy goddesses:

Marie Forleo: life coach, motivational speaker, author

Rachel Hunter: actual supermodel, yogi, tv/podcast host

Adriene Mishler: yoga teacher, actress, Texan

The high priestesses:

Marianne Williamson: lecturer, activist, author

Esther Hicks:  inspirational speaker, author

Gabrielle Bernstein: speaker, author, spirit junkie

The witty wordsmiths:

Zoë Foster Blake: Author, journalist, beauty entrepreneur

Liane Moriaty: Bestselling author

Mari Andrew: Writer, illustrator

The bright lights:

Ellen DeGeneres: Comedian, tv host, producer

Taylor Swift: Singer, songwriter, musician

Drew Barrymore: Actor, producer, director

The ones I have the honour to know:

Alicia Malone: Film reporter, author, movie geek

Elena Pilch: Kinesiologist, intuitive guide, energy healer

Nikki Britton: Comedian, actress

By weavethefuturemagical

Hi guyz! I’m Yvette. I love to write about all things Minimalism, Mindfulness and Melbourne. The woo-woo makes me go woo-hoo! Much love xoxo @ me at


  1. My little people watch my ever move…imitating the good, the bad and the ugly. Being mindful of my own action has required learning from others…I classify you YoTN as one of these others.

    Keep learning.

    Find the sun.

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    1. Deep bow 🙇‍♀️ to you MoPM and to all the parentals role modelling 24:7. They really do watch and notice especially when you are asking them to do as you say and not as you do! 🙏 thanks. I shall find some light and drape myself over things x


  2. I love following your weekly blogs. I never quite know what you are going to write about. Another very interesting one and a great photo of you lying on the rocks. I love the saying on the Kindergarten poster. Also the list of so many role models who inspire you, some are authors whose books I have plus Alicia Malone who I follow and whose books I also have. I will be looking out for your book, which I am sure you will write, one of these days. xxx

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